Beltane Marry Yourself Ceremony for Women

“You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” ~Buddha

Are you ready to say "I Do" and commit to maintaining a meaningful, deep, and loving relationship with yourself?

The most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with yourself. Committing to loving and honoring yourself is one of the most powerful things you can do.

Marrying yourself is a bold statement that says you are enough and celebrates your wholeness. You might be open to sharing your life with another person, but you don’t "need" a better half. Building a strong sense of self-worth reduces the propensity to accept situations or relationships that dishonor your values and helps maintain standards for what you expect in a relationship.

Sologamy, yes, there’s a word for it, is a declaration of self-compassion and a promise to give to yourself what you often seek from other people. The idea is to hold your own heart and care for it as much as you would someone else’s, a lifelong commitment to loving yourself fully.

Loving and accepting everything about yourself makes you happier, and more lovable and helps to attract more love. Love begets love. It helps you to accept yourself and others fully and feel more confident.

This ceremony is specifically created for women.  Any woman who is married, partnered, or single and chooses to celebrate her self-love and commitment to herself is welcome. 

The ceremony will be done in person (Fort Lauderdale) and ONLINE.

This ceremony will be an opportunity to reclaim your full sovereignty and clear away any past vows, entities, or attachments that are no longer permitted in your sacred vessel, allowing yourself to be FREE and SOVEREIGN to create a new life path for yourself.

I will be guiding meditations and processes with the help of the Angels, Mary Magdalene, and Ascended Masters to create a vortex of healing and transformation.  We will honor the sacred union of the God & Goddess within.

After that, every woman will be invited to speak her own soul vows in front of the other women and place her own ring or any piece of special jewelry to seal the ceremony.

Once the ceremony is complete, we will celebrate with song, dance, and a healthy potluck.

Why marry yourself in Beltane?

Beltane is the pagan season that honors Life. It occurs at the peak of Spring and the beginning of Summer. Earth energies are at their strongest and most potent. All of life is bursting with new energy and fertility. Beltane is a celebration of the divine balance between the masculine and feminine. By weaving ourselves through ceremony into the rhythms of Gaia, we work with the energy of the Earth and bring a grounding-yet-invigorating energy to the union.

The cost of this ceremony is $33 per person.

WHAT YOU'LL NEED:

• A white dress preferably, but you are welcome to wear any color you feel called to wear.  This is YOUR special day.
• A red shawl in honor of Mary Magdalene.
• A healthy dish to share for those coming in person. For those joining online, ensure you have food available to feast at the end.
• Your own soul vows that you create yourself.  There will be support with this if you need it.
• A ring or special sacred jewelry. Procure a piece of jewelry that has heart and meaning for you.  It can be one that you already own.
• A flower crown or any tiara of your choice.

About the officiant:

Hello, my name is Claudia, Mukti Ram Jaya; I am a Priestess of the Goddess, Reiki Master, and an Ordained Minister. Officiating sacred unions is one of my passions. I’ve been approached to lead a self-marriage ceremony, and I was delighted to put together a very special ceremony unlike any other. I know the value and importance of committing to a lifelong relationship of self-love, wholeness, and trust. I am humbled and honored to hold space for you to claim your sovereignty, be witnessed speaking your soul vows, and begin a new relationship with yourself.

Everything I create is a dedication to the Great Mother Goddess.

I hope to see you at this special event.

Claudia Mukti Ram Jaya,

Red Tent Goddess Cofounder